I have to tell you from a guy's perspective the stance you took on the phone is attractive, strong and would pique my interest. Make me really think about what you are doing and what I'm missing out on. Great job!
Last edited by Cadet; 02/03/1605:31 PM. Reason: start a new thread message
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
So proud of you. This is very well done and if he just happen to try and snoop on you. You will be at your mom, with your kids, your dog and most important - your dignity.
Now, be alert because a controlling person won't let that go so easy. He will try to react to it in some way. Hopefully not, but be prepared.
A million hugs to you today. I know how hard it is to do these things.
Rest, organize your toughts. Recharge the batteries so you can go again
I don't know how long time it's going to last, and I don't know if he will decide for his M. All what you can do is hope he is thinking about what is important in a family's life.
From all this you can learn your value, have your dignity, respect yourself and show others how to respect you.
This is happening for a reason. You will grow as a person, learn new stuff.
I know I can't say to you that he will be back in a week, or month, but I can just say that it feels unproductive, but at the end of the day he may think that this woman with strong character is yet the best for him.
Be patient, do your part and see the transformation on yourself, and hopefully he will see it too.
I have to tell you from a guy's perspective the stance you took on the phone is attractive, strong and would pique my interest. Make me really think about what you are doing and what I'm missing out on. Great job!
Squiggy really? I love guys prespective. I do not have any guys in my life except my one or two friends husbands who I'm not going to sit and tell them all the details of my day. Im happy I did good! I feel good!
You really have been such a blessing in all of this. I have been slowly reading back through your old posts and see some similiaries in our situations. All the advice you had given me I had written down and saved into my phone to look at.
I am starting to feel like maybe at the very least, what I get out of this is how to be a strong, independant, amazing women who doesnt need or rely on anyone but myself for my happiness.
Hopefully tomorrow will be peaceful. Instwad of my usual hangout for 5-7 hours with him I plan to sit and go over the taxes, submit them, and try to leave within 30-40 mins tops. Go out and I have plans!
Mall with my good friend who was in my wedding, library for some books, dinner date with my sister, sleepover with my mommy. Good day of happiness.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
