Bklynmom,
Thank you.
I am finally doing things for myself and am enjoying my life.
It would have been nice if my Husband had been a part of it.
I really thought the MLC monster was in the past, but alas, it raised it's ugly head again.
In hindsight, he should have gone into therapy and dealt with the aftermath properly when he first came home.
Shoulda
Woulda
Coulda