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That is awesome! I'm glad that W finally woke up. I hope everything works out really well for you guys. Please keep us updated, there aren't enough success stories on here.

I'm not at that point, and may never get there as my H is happy with NC at all, but I think that IC and marriage counseling should be a mandatory requirement of yours. She needs to fully understand why she allowed this to happen so that it doesn't happen again (IC). And, you two need to make sure you work through the problems in your marriage that allowed her to be in a place where she wanted to leave (MC). I would also make sure to go SLOW and don't jump right back in. If you appear too eager, she could turn and run again.

I was just wondering if you would share a bit about how the last year went. I mean, did you guys still talk or see each other at all? And, if so, how often did you communicate? I've been mostly NC with my H for the past month. And, before that I have had very little contact since the beginning of October. We go for weeks without texting, seeing each other, or calling and he never initiates communication with me. It's getting harder and harder every day to hold on to any hope at all. Still trying not to give up on him though. Would love to hear any advice you can offer.