Also, do you have a bank # 2 - the one only know about and no one will ever find it? If not, think about putting some money aside. A little at a time, so he does not suspect you are building some cash on the side.
This is not really robbing him, it is protecting yourself. Since you do not work, your income is only from him and you do not have access to bank account, so start today.
I definitely agree with this - I am doing cash, just getting a little back here and there as a just in case. I didn't want to open any actual accounts though, simply for the fact that it's easier to have a little cash on hand than it is a card that he'll likely find and ask about or what not. It's definitely under the umbrella of PROTECTION, especially as SAHMs.
