Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings

[ATPeace]

Hi RD thank you for your post

Jelly is right and so many of you have been I have not seen it for the mist that is all arround me

I have to think of my children and this is not healthy for them

I have spoken to my W and I have sent her the email that I received regarding attending the mediation . I have no idea where it will take us

Time to decide what I want out of all this

I have been happy to go along with her decision howeve I want to have my hands on the wheel of this ship I want to take y turn in steering this I a not just here for the ride

So my wife is proposing that we share the child care fifty fifty I am not sure if my eldest daughter will want to live with me at all or not this we will have to see

My W is proposing that I have the kids from
Friday night
Saturday daytime
Saturday night
Sunday daytime
Sunday evening then she wil collect or I will drop home Sunday night
Then the next week I get them for an addition day if I can

So she gets to have the kids in the days that they have school and I get them every weekend

Anyone else have ts arrangement and how does this work for you

Thank you

Ghost