Hello everyone, it has been a while and definitely a very very busy few months, just to recap I completed my first marathon in dec, and just completed my schooling to ensure my promotion. So things are looking up. This past month I was contacted by Ww and she broke down and told me she wanted to come home. It has been a year for those that have followed my sitch. She said all the things I think everyone on this thread wants to hear, she loves me, made the worst mistake of her life, wished she would have never let OM get close, all those things. But what was most unexpected was how she profusely apologized for how she hurt and treated me! I told her that I forgave her for the affair and that I never expected an apology, but I really did appreciate the intent! She then expressed to me how much respect she gained for me, for how I handled the entire sitch. She said, the way I handled the entire thing showed her what a real man is like. She then said she feels isolated and that OM is now verging on stalker level. I just listened without offering any I told you so's.
I gave what she said a lot of thought and decided I was willing to give us one more try. I mean isn't that what I strove for from the beginning. I wanted to better myself be happy with me and hopefully fix us. After telling her I was willing to try again I explained to her that I was doing this not because I needed her but I have chosen to try again. So as of today she is packing her things and gave her two weeks notice and moving out here. We will not start off in the same room but we will cohabitate in the same house. I feel allows us to be close but not too fast. I will keep everyone informed on the next few steps. Any advice is greatly welcomed.
