Thank you Thank you Trumpet! So great to have so many in same sitch, gives some sense of comfort knowing so many others with same circumstances. Getting my mountain bikes tuned up, ready for some riding, haven't been in years. Have divorce support group tonight, keeping pretty busy. Yes, I have the waves of crying, and then I feel better. It will all be fine in a few......months? Years? well, it will be fine at some point smile


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)