Roar, I agree I plan on being the same..not really dragging my feet but I won't go out of my way to help.
Pink,
That makes sense, think of it as business.
I still think it is fishy as well, but I have to let it go. I still kinda obsess over it and wonder but I have no way of knowing. As far as all his best friends, parents, he tells me. There is no one else, he talks to no other girls, and all he does at work is mention and talk about me still. I am really praying that it is true.
Yes, he has me on his insurance. It is very good insurance. He upgraded everything in December after we separated. I was surprised he got vision since I am the only one with eye problems. I should take advantage of it since it gives me a year of free contacts! I will look in a IC. I have had a few people tell me that I might have been depressed as a SAHM and maybe I was/am and didn't even realize it.
I have started putting money away on the side. I have it in cash so that way it isn't traceable in case of a divorce, I don't want anyone to know. I have around 500$ right now in emergency funds.
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He is being a jerk today. He asked me a question in a text I said I wasn't sure it was a or b. He was like really it's not that hard. He wants to know about his w2 and I honestly don't know how to answer the question. I think I am reading to much into it but now I am upset that he thinks I am an idiot who can't answer a simple question.