Yes! I keep reminding myself, I don't want the D - so it's only my responsibility to prepare for it, but that doesn't mean I need to "help" him with it. My H told me last night he didn't want me to drag my feet on it because he will be away for 6 months...UMMM...sorry buddy, I'm not helping you with that. I just told him I would be putting D4 in school and I would be doing "something". It's seriously chess right now. Keep your cards close to your chest, be prepared for the worst but don't work for what you don't want regardless.
