WAW - Marching to the D

[Huddy]

The biggest question is, what do you want? Do you want to be D'd? If the answer is 'yes', then go right ahead, accept everything she says about you and sign the papers. If you don't want to be D'd, then why agree? Yeah, S is sometimes the answer, but it's to got be on an equal footing; all I'm reading is that 'W wants this', 'W wants kids' etc. whilst she does whatever she wants.

It all depends on your financial might and how much you really want to fight for the M. Notice the distinction here about fighting for your W - she ain't interested, right now. Sadly, if you haven't got much in the way of finance, it's easy to take the bait, sign everything and then spend the rest of your days counting the cost.

IS, your W is a loose cannon right now. Personally, I didn't sign an S agreement and W stopped mentioning D last summer. It didn't suit ME. Right now, that, and your kids, are your only concern.