That's ok Drew. I know about gaslighting. I know he does it. I don't really know how to respond or navigate it.
He only blames me for not coming to help him.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?