Keep up doing things for you. I have altered my schedule a bit and started doing things at different times and making the nights not be a time of mind racing. Helped wonders.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15