NYG...I am a screeching banshee here. But other than crying and cursing during the talk a few days ago, I have been dim and I even told him yesterday that his plans sound good and that I know he can do it all.
I'm getting us ready now to pick up the money he owes me. And I plan on finding a way to bring in money without paying for day care since it would cancel out a paycheck, It's very expensive. I just see that he is saying a lot of things (he wants to buy me a new car, he wants to pay off something that needs to be paid for me, he wants to do XYZ for and with the kids etc) but his actions of spending every dime on what he is spending it on go against what he is saying.
I will check in soon. Have to finish getting us ready.