Sorry for the confusion, she is not sleeping here and hasn't since she moved out. I mean I am trying to sleep again smile I take OTC sleeping pills each night, but still only get 4-6 hours of sleep. Wold love a full 8 hours one day, coming up on 6 weeks for me. Any tips to get more sleep when your going through the emotions of WW / affair?? I like what Texas said too Bear, I've been thinking of how disrespectful this betrayal is to me / our marriage. Affair is not our fault, but we are accountable for the state of the marriage leading up to it I suppose. Those are some of the behaviors I am changing in my GAL / detachment process.


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)