i think maybe stop looking so deep into the 180's when dealing with the W going in a thousand directions.

Handle all stuff about the daughter the way you should and best for her. Other than that let W spin around and just validate when you can and STFU.

She has to travel down a road, you prob don't want to get in the way

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15