Right now you have to do what others are saying and make it like a business transaction.
I am doing the same thing. She wants me out but my L said stay put.....for now until we have everything in writing, custody, etc...resolved I am hoping things change during the time but its just getting rougher
I would put on your game face and smile....I know how hard this is...you just want to say "I know where things went wrong, lets give it a chance and work on this.." Which I think should be the path but sounds like she is going dark and fast down the other path (she must know my WAW)
Its not easy and I am not sure about the 180 thing. I am reading and trying it and I don't see how this will help either but....no real other path to take that has worked right?
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....