Still crazy after all these years.......

[BklynMom]

Mirepoi, its so nice (sorry wrong word) for me to hear your story.

I have 85% moved on from my ex, but I still have this lingering want that one day I wake up and his MLC is over. The truth is, like you, this forum and therapy and Alanon has changed me too much to every go back to him. I am now am at an advanced state of self awareness and self pride that I do not think I could allow myself to compromise to him.

I can only imagine how frustrating it would be to continue to live with a man through this. I suppose its similar to living with an alcoholic, which would basically be impossible unless you were equally screwed up.

You are not alone in your journey.

Don't forget to go back to the basics. Be grateful for all you have in your life.