And for the other side of the coin, RE: porn, I think you know better. Yes, PA is awful and the worst. There's reason why Jesus Christ says that a man even looking at woman that way is the same. Don't dismiss her feelings. They are real and there is real damage. Sorry to be blunt and harsh. I know you've come so far. She has far to come too. Don't dismiss her...be firm. Just as you have encouraged me. :-)
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?