Thank you Cristy, yes it was good to hear from someone outside of this that I am on a good path. At times I don't feel she is as strong as she wants to make out on her decisions, at times I have almost felt she has been more resigned about them.
I have done a lot of reading and at times have been humbled by want I have read. I know from reading Sandi's story that something has to humble her if she is going to look at herself. She did say she plans on getting professional help and I do feel she needs time to figure out if the family life is really what she wants.
