Well after praying for guidance on my issue and clarity to know what to do. I slept on it and came up with 2 options. 1. Suck it up and say I will be getting the boys Friday and I will meet her for drop off Tuesday.
2. I like this one better as its action. There is an amazing indoor playground about 1/2 way between us. It's open on S bday. And though it wouldn't be a big party with family an friends. Just the kids, her and I. ( if she chooses to stay), it would be a great place for the kids to run and play, for me too as its built for everyone. they allow you to bring food so I would pack a lunch and make a cake for his bday as well.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
