Hey ATP,

I am here with you, W is pushing more now for the S to move forward and I had to go to he next step and see a Lawyer. It was something I was putting off. I was avoiding as I was telling myself I was not ready. I also had to deal with the thoughts of what could be next and I am currently thinking about where I am going to live, what I want as far as looking after the kids ect. This is something that I was avoiding thinking about. But I had to go there, it was time. I think you are there too, Its time to think about these topics but in a way that you think about solving a problem. Not the sad part of it.

you can do it.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016