Hey bud,

Yeah, it's hard to say right now. My friend has been single for a long time and seems content that way. I didn't have any intentions of having feelings between us but you know how that can be. And no I do not want to complicate my sitch at all. Right now I am going to just be happy about reconnecting with a dear old friend and have a good time.

I went over this weekends events with my IC on Monday, she was excited that I had taken this step away from WW. She then asked me what I am going to do when WW comes around wanting to work on things because she thinks WW will get curious/jealous when she notices the shift in my attitude. I told her that I wasn't ready to do that just yet and it is going to take a big effort on her part to win me back.

WW has still made no effort to nail down a schedule with the kids. She still pays all the household bills and carries us all on her insurance. She really doesn't seem to want anything to change at the moment and I'm not sure what to think about it. I have been extremely dark for the past three weeks and we only communicate about the kids. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.


M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7
T: 18
M:13
I suspect problem: 8/15
ILYB: 9/15
Never quit on love
I ask her to leave:10/15