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Man, I feel for you! It seems to me that as you get closer to the possibility of starting a new marriage with your wife, the more tumultuous things become.

Is it because of your expectations? Resistance from your wife? Or just a new phase/dynamic in the relationship?

I ask these questions because I think that understanding the underlying cause of this tension may be important for moving forward. I see that your wife has put up walls to protect herself from feeling pain, but I don't know what you can do to help alleviate these fears without putting pressure on her.

I wish I had more constructive advice for you, but hang in there. You're on the right path and I'm pulling for you smile


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou