Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings

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But ATP, you don't actually know what she wants. Stop mind reading.
And no; what someone says is not always what they mean. This is why you need to not focus on her and what she wants. Focus on you.

You also don't know what is going to happen...you can't see the future. So you don't have to accept it. You can accept that you have no control over the future or your wife, but that acceptance does not change your path. Focus on you and the things you can change, the rest will just happen...maybe in surprising ways.