I am so glad that you are okay. Those storms were something else and they are coming across the US and we are due to get some of that mess this afternoon.

I'm glad you were able to locate someone who can match your tiles and repair the roof for you. I love a tiled roof. A former co-worker, here in MD, has a home with a tiled roof and it's beautiful.

I'm glad you spoke to your GF. Hopefully, you will find a time to let her know how things have been between the two of you. I know you will handle it w/grace a dignity, but friendships are a two way street. Maybe she doesn't realize how she's been, i.e., w/all she's got going on.

Bright, you will get to where you need to be when the time is right. Don't try to rush the process. You are right where you need to be at this time.

Hang in there! Spring is right around the corner and hopefully the weather will finally settle down!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.