I'm OK Z. Still have a bug so I am not doing much, which is not what I need. I know I have posted a lot about this exchange but it is the first thing to happen in my situation in a while and if it is the start of a change in either direction I wanted as much insight as possible.

You know I appreciate your feedback and honesty that is probably one of the biggest helps that I have had to keep going.

Well if you are going to make time to write, I need to clear my schedule to have reading time!! I like your long posts so don't hold back because of this joke.

Cheers mate


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together