shreeve I don't understand, wife has own apartment but is returning to your home to sleep?
My question is basically rephrased Would physical detachment speed things (DB-ing) up?
I will tell you this much, as long as the WW gets to have her OM/A, plus she gets her comfy home and the affection of her H.........why do you think she will be in any hurry? What you need to do is tell her, "You know, I have been thinking things over, and this setup just isn't working for me. You have an apartment and that's what you wanted in this separation. So now, we need to live like separated people. No more sleep overs on the couch or to get your cuddle time. You have your own place, and this is my place".
She may not like it, but so what? It is time for her to put her big girl panties on.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
