Zues, I understand what you are saying. I believe th a God does not like divorce and his will would be that we stay together. But my wife has free will. I pray the holy spirit speaks to her and convicts her to realize her wayward ways. Am i in denial, may e but I know chances are slim she will come back but I serve a great God. Prayer is all I can do. She is 500 miles away. This was our first real argument in 18 years of marriage. A little background. Wife's father falls and wife goes home to be with him in hospital. Father dies,wife meets brother of HS friend and begins texting affair. I tracked her phone and hacked email trying to see how close they were. She is mad because I did this. But I forgive her for her affair. The affair ended months ago when he ended it
