From what I've seen from my own and other's experiences, it seems like it's pretty common for them to go back and forth. There have been several times I've been almost convinced my H and I had made it to piecing, but it seems every positive step forward is also accompanied by a freak out session that backs things up a little. We are still making forward progress...it's just slow.
Thanks Anna. But, did you go for MONTHS with only seeing H a couple of times? I mean, it's been a month again and I only saw him once about a week ago. During that 1 hr visit, he said "I don't think it's a good idea" when I said that he didn't seem glad that I was there. And, when I asked him if he wanted me to leave, he said "I think it would be best." But, then he also told me how great I looked and said that I "hypnotize" him when he's with me, that's why he doesn't want me there and doesn't want to look at me or hug me, etc. WTF? Could those signals be any more mixed? What the heck am I supposed to do with that??? If it were back and forth, that would be one thing, but he came back, then got rid of me again, and that was it. End of story.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
But, then he also told me how great I looked and said that I "hypnotize" him when he's with me, that's why he doesn't want me there and doesn't want to look at me or hug me, etc. WTF? Could those signals be any more mixed? What the heck am I supposed to do with that??? If it were back and forth, that would be one thing, but he came back, then got rid of me again, and that was it. End of story. 