I But I made a decision I am in this until my heart and mind check out. I'm ready.
Think of it this way.
thanks otw. I didn't make this decision but my heart is still kind of in this and my mind is starting to check out
She made some accusations via text today that I was potentially "watching " what she was doing on her home computer as her phone/computer were acting up
To me it was a horrible text to send as I would never do this and my response was that you should never send me a text again like this as I never would do this and if you are paranoid about it, you are obviously doing something wrong which I don't care about anymore. And dont send this to me ever again
I need to stand up and not take this. She is constantly reaching out in a bad way and looking for reasons to scrap with each other or have interaction
I asked her to stop. go hire a computer guy and check things but if you need to do it, look in the mirror as you are up to somehting which is probably an EA.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....