I think you hit it. Sit back and observe.

Be a great person. Work on yourself. Show the changes are permanent

Let her take her journey also. If she looks like or asks for some help or involvement then go slow.

Why rush this part?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15