Nooooooooooooo, don't you feel badly. Use it or don't. Use it with him or with someone else. Or not. Heck, I'm sure we could all be better at listening and (not) arguing. I just talked about all this with my IC and she reminds me to practice on friends. That's easier.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
