WW, My Addiction, Patience, and HOPE Part II

[G8r]

I feel for you Trumpet. Sometimes I think you're lucky to have a WW willing to try to R and then I read something else that you post and realize that your sitch is still not so different from mine. How do you get the WW to let go of the past hurt and look to the possibility of a bright future. It seems unfair that your WW won't let go of her pain but doesn't expect you to have, or more importantly show, your pain. I know my WW has been hurt aand her pain prevents her from opening up to me and I suspect that you know your W is in pain and is afraid to open up to you again for fear of the pain it may bring, but.... Do we really know the extent of the pain we caused them which primed them for an A? How does our pain compare to theirs? My WW talks about the years of pain that I had no idea that I put her through and I want to complain about a few months if pain.

I'm not trying to say one pain is greater than the other and maybe I'm projecting my own sitch onto yours. Idk. Just some thoughts that popped into my head when I read your latest post that I felt compelled to share.

I'm pulling for you and wish you the best. Vaya con dios.