So it's been a while. Not sure if any of the folks following my thread are still out here. Seems as if out of the blue (kind of) WW's fog has lifted. Looking back, it seems like a lot has happened over the last 4 months with her. I've had really no contact, so I just got a general feel from the kids on what was going on. I think she hit rock bottom. She bet on OM leaving his GF when she left me and I think after 18 months she's finally accepted it wouldn't happen. Anyway, I've noticed that she's been more involved with stuff with the kids since this time and then she started to contact me on going over the separation agreement w/o lawyers. She was adamant before to not do any of that with me personally. So last week, we sat down and all of the triggers and anger and all of the other things I've wrote seem gone. We had a (focused) but cordial 2+ hour meeting going through the agreement. We reached consensus on pretty much everything. In the end, we had some more personal conversation and she said that she realized how selfish she has been and put the kids and everyone else on the outside and distanced herself from everyone. She also apologized for putting me and the kids through that. It was very surprising given the last 18 months, but it seems like she's back to her personality from before.

Anyway right now, I'm just happy that the interaction is much better with regard to the kids and I hope she continues to heal.

M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)