Bud
Put that game face on. Business time. You can not look at her like you used to. She is someone trying to ruin you right now. Never show your hand or lack of. Be polite but fair. Don't give too much and don't be a dick.

On another note about the 180's. Don't get discouraged. Do them if you feel they are right and how you want to be. Then be consistent. If you flip flop then she knows you are just trying to get her back.

Good luck

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15