I feel weird texting him. Usually we text and it is like always kinda cute, flirty, fun from him but I'm trying to keep it polite. Usually he texts me like we did while we were married.
One text is bothering me that I sent. Was it too much to tell him thank you for helping me with his own kids? I want to be polite with out coming off as fake or booty kissing.
Thank you for helping me last night when I needed you.I hope you have an easy night at work. I will call incase of an emergency but if not they are fine.
He said regardless to text him or call him later for an update even if they are fine before I go to sleep and to make sure I get rest tonight.
(Last night he told me he was coming(i didnt ask) and had his captain let him leave in the middle of a shift and drove to my house to watch the son and then stayed overnight to make sure I could sleep some and help if he needed me once I got home from the ER. We did sleep in the same bed from 6-9am and i woke up at one point with him snuggle but I just rolled away. I know at night when he is half asleep it is more out of habit then it is anything else and letting it go.)
I know I need a bed boundary, I'm weak when it comes to that area. I just enjoy not being alone in the bed and dont have really the balls to say go sleep on the couch. I know I could but I dont really want to either. I dont see any sleepovers happening anytime soon. Its maybe once a month if he wants to.. I never ask him too.
