It's February and I can't keep the thought of Valentines Day out of my mind. I know that as a Divorce Buster, it is not acceptable to send or offer any type of Valentine greeting, as it will be persuing. This will be the ultimate 180 for me. I have never refrained from giving some sort of Valentines card, gift or romantic gesture since our dating days.
I do not expect anything from my spouse but she may surprise me. In the event she does get me a card I do not know how I will react. The divorce buster in me may say thanks but no thanks . How can I accept any form of Valentine greeting since the bomb was dropped?
On the other hand I was brought up to be polite and appreciative for such gestures. What if a card is her way of saying, "Let's try to fix this marriage" ?
I do realize I may be wasting my time contemplating what to do, but I need to be prepared.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
