Inpain, ugh. First I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can hear and feel your fear at losing your H and M when you write. I feel like that too.
There are so many similarities between your M, Anna's M and my R. We sure do know how to punish these men don't we? LOL I myself am quite the expert. I can be vicious with my words to him, and I have been. I'm not proud of it and it's cost me a lot as you've read.
I think the advice you've gotten is spot on and really may be your best shot. Irish gave you a few real life examples of couples that have gone through what we are going through.
Hi Rain, thanks for posting. You're right, I am very fearful of this whole thing like you. I think I need to go back and read all the posts, I feel like I'm confused as to what the advice actually is! Maybe I need to start journalling it. I just feel like I'm thrashing about in deep water.
Originally Posted By: Rain75
We can do this girl. We have to get some GAL activites and some 180s in place to help us DETACH!
Easy peasy lemon squeezy
I still need to figure out what my 180s should be.
I still need to figure out what my 180s should be.