I firmly believe life isn't about getting what we want. It's about wanting what we get. It's easy to think we're different, we're special, we deserve getting what we want. But to me this is the line of thinking that makes us miserable and through us our partners as well. When we can truly be not just ok, but great, with whatever comes our way, that's success in my book.
Zues, I always appreciate your perspective and what you have to say. This ^ right here.... is the essence of "Thy Will be done". ;-) Always a good reminder. How easy it is to get lost and forget that. Sorry for any hijack...just wanted to see how ya'll were!
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
