Isittoolate - thanks! I was trying to work out how to do a signature :-)

Yeh I'll look on other posts, I just felt a bit weird as not sure I've got any advice yet as a newbie! I'll give it a go.. Xx

Me 35 H 38
Married 4 years together 13 years
Affair started sept 2015
BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
son age 3 daughter age 1