Thank you always for your perspective. Husband defiantly was resentful, although his resentment made little sense. I worked part time once kids were born. To return to work full time would mean we would have lost money because child care was more expensive then my full time salary. Logistically it would have been difficult as well as I work a lot if evening hrs. Crazy thing was I had asked him to watch kids on Saturday so I could take on per diem and he said no because it meant he would need to wake up. When I asked him how I would handle child care situation he actually said " other people do it figure it out"
When I think of this blatant cruelty and disrespect and irrationality I want to go get those divorce papers right now...at the time I was trying my hardest to just agree and divorce bust.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
