Hi Isit, good for you! When I first spoke to the organiser of my local group, I told her I would try and save the M if my H wanted to, but as of now he was moving forward with D. She said that was absolutely fine.
Sounds like you're doing well, despite recent developments & that's the main thing.
Take care x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus