Mediation letter arrived today so I guess will be in the next week or two
I really am not sure what I want other than to get back with my W and she wants none of that.
I do not want to discuss only having the kids only three days a week and I do not feel ready to discuss selling house and divorcing being on my own
She will steer the ship if I do not and I will be just a passenger
This is not a vessel I can stop and one way or another she is going to get what she wants
Hey G,
This up here ^^^^^^^^ is why your W is taking the next step to mediation. Your insistence on taking no action means she has feels she has to.
That up there is the same behaviour of you walking in from work and spending the evening on your computer and not participating. This behaviour absolutely confirms to wife everything that she believes.
Your wife keeps gifting you opportunities to show her the man and father you can be. Do you see that G?
If you want to be the captain of your family's ship G, you gotta step up and take the wheel and take charge.
Sandi asked an excellent question. When is your next IC. Figure out what you want and go for it. You"re still in this if you want to be G.
I'm here hoping you are gonna grab yourself by the **** and show her what you got. If not now, when?
