REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#2

[Rain75]

I hear what you're saying. That's why we're all here. Okay, my sitch isn't going well but you and your W have flirtation and sweet moments. That has to count for a lot. And it has to make you feel better. I do think your expectations are high still (mine were too) so when you have a good interaction with her, you get sad after. Wishing things would hurry along. Again, we've all done that.

I do see that what you're doing is working. You stopped pleading and crying and she sees you out and about, and I'm sure she's heard of your meals out with friends. It makes her seek you out. So you just keep doing the same. She isn't being mean or vindictive or spiteful. She isn't rubbing things in your face. Trust me, those are positives.