Spent a ton of time researching today, have my counseling session tonight at 7pm. It looks like this betrayal that the LBS experiences is pretty traumatic in general. Some resources compare it to PTSD and say some EMDR therapy may help. Has anybody used the EMDR therapy? I have no idea if those are the correct order of the initials. Have to see the WW for dog drop off tonight, will try to make it quick and clean.


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)