FY, I agree w/you. In Cali's case, I think she's going to get tired of mentioning it because it's not giving her the results she wants.
No matter what happens, Cali has given it everything he's got. He's a success no matter what happens.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.