When we woke up I said I had to run errands and left which he thought was extremely weird since I didn't tell him where I was going. I had to drop off my daughters prescription and then stop by her school to leave a doctors note and pick up homework. Usually I ask if It's okay and tell him all the details. My 180 was just going to do what I needed to do.
He asked once why I was cranky- I wasn't I just extremely tired from being up all the night and only getting 3 hours of sleep and he was trying to talk about if I needed money now or in 3-4 days and I said well if you are the bank and would like to bring some I will save it for when I need it but if not I am fine to wait. Not sure how it came off as cranky.
Then he asked why I am acting so "weird" because today was the first day I ENFORCED the bubble rule. I didn't let him stand to close to me, I stayed in another room from his most of the time. I was polite and said have a good day at work when he left. He knocked on the bathroom door to ask what I was doing and I'm like..using the bathroom. Luckily today he didn't bust in on me. He snuck up behind me when he was leaving and gave me an around the arm hug and I just looked at him and walked away. Usually I would give him a really good hug since I wouldn't see him for a few days.
I'm not sure if I am doing it right. I know I'm suppose to be HAPPY and carefree and fun to be around but I feel like my 180s today made him think i'm being weird and off. I am a VERY loving, touchy, hold me, snuggle person and today I turned it all off. Did I 180 to hard today?
