Well yesterday the Wife went to a Divorce Shop (paralegal place) and started the filing process. She didn't tell me but I saw the charge come though last night. This morning she didn't bring it up until I asked on the way out the door with the kids (Kids in car already). She said she has not filed yet and the service is just building a starting point for the Wife and I to workout a deal without lawyers. She pointed out that we have 45 days to file. She still plans on living in the house during this process.

So..... Now what?