Tim, I think you would do better if you stayed away from her websites altogether. At this point, you are wanting to analyze everything, and it will work on your emotions too much. Besides, you cannot place any value in what she says on public sites.
When my XDIL dumped my S, she was always putting stuff out there, like you've described, and it was so ridiculous. She would be making references to her new OM and actually some of it came back to bite her.
You have much better things to do that watch stuff like FB, Pintrest, Twitter, or anything along those lines. For sure, if she knows you are watching, you will probably get stung several times over.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
