So much this, Zeus. This was one of my largest struggles and the biggest barrier to working on myself. Very well written.
To quickly highlight what Tyler said, because it seems to be one of the pieces of DBing that an LBS misses, is that success is measured in two ways: 1. reconciling your marriage, and/or 2. learning and growing from this experience to become the person you truly are/want to be.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
